Is love alone enough in a relationship?

Is love alone enough in a relationship? (The original question)

I’d personally say that love alone is NOT enought in a relationship. WHY? The reason is love requires SUPPORT e.g. commitment, trust, respect, understanding, thoughtfulness, and of course the things that support us to live – MONEY. I don’t mean that love is a lust of money (get a rich person to love). As long as we have money to support our basic needs e.g. food, clothes, etc. I guess it’s more than enough. Love is not a mere feeling because I believe that love is a feeling that can vanish anytime if we have no commitment of keeping it burning. It is akin to a person who is clever but has no commitment of going to school. If I want LOVE, I’ll ensure it will keep on burning all the time… Enough to lit up the life – Yang penting tidak padam. Besides, RESPECT plays an important role between 2 parties – How can a LOVE lasts if there’s no respect? Paling-paling hatred saja tu nanti. TRUST – Trust the one that you LOVE. Tapi, susah juga mo cakap kan? Sebab kadang-kala kita TRUST tapi turus kena betray. Some people bilang follow your INSTINCT, believe it kunun. Frankly speaking, sometimes I do follow my instinct and found out that sometimes itu instinct sia inda ngam. Mo kena tiun tiun… Hahhahaha~ I guess itu saja sia bulih cakap sebab itu saja yang sia rasa… Yang penting LOVE ALONE IS NOT ENOUGH IN A RELATIONSHIP!

A Message about God

These are not written by me. In fact, a friend of mine sent this via email. I think it’s quite interesting and well… I'm sharing this with you, guys…

God love you more than everything in this world.

He understands you more than you understand about yourself.

He always be by your side.

He’s the only one who will never leave you.

If you feel depressed,

Just tell everything to Him,

And He will show you the true love

And also answer your problem.

He is your Father, Friend, and your Endless Love.

So, don’t worry about something

Because He will give the best for you.

Do you know why God created gaps between your fingers?

It's because someone who is very special to you will come,

and fill those gaps by holding your hands forever.

God will never leave you empty.

He will replace everything you lost.

If He asks you to put something down,

It's because He wants you to pick up something great.

Happy Sabbath, guys!

Ways to reject pick-up lines

#1

Man: “Haven’t we met before?”

Woman: “Yes, I’m the receptionist at the V.D. Clinic.”

#2

Man: “So, wanna go back to my place?”

Woman: “Well, I don’t know. Will two people fit under a rock?”

#3

Man: “I’d really like to get into your pants.”

Woman: “No thanks. There’s already one asshole in there.”

#4

The most memorable rebuttal to a turn down (used by the guy who used to live across the hall from me in residence) when he asked a girl to dance and she refused:

Man: “Want to Dance?”

Woman: “No, thank you.”

Man: “Don’t thank me, thank God somebody asked you.”

#5

Man: “I’d like to call you. What’s your number?”

Woman: “It’s in the phone book.”

Man: “But I don’t know your name.”

Woman: “That’s in the phone book too.”

#7

Man: “So what do you do for a living?”

Woman: “Female impersonator.”

#8

And here’s one including the correct snappy return.

Man: “How do you like your eggs in the morning?”

Woman: “Unfertilized, screw off!”

#9

A girlfriend of mine once had a graying man in his 60’s approach her in a club while she was in college with the line,”Where have you been all my life?” She took one glance at him and said, “For the first half of it, I probably wasn’t born yet.”

#10

A friend of mine came up with a very quick response over vacation. We were walking down the street and I glanced at a girl who had just walked by. She turned around and said to me, “What are you looking at?” My friend, walking next to me came to the rescue, “He thought you were

good looking, but he was mistaken.”

#11

While at college, a few friends were discussing how their “passes” had been rejected by the intended female receiver. One of the ladies explained how she handled it once… When the guy, obviously getting irritated, blurted out something like, “Hey, come on, we’re both here at this bar for the same reason!” She responded, “Yeah! Let’s pick up some chicks!” He immediately blanched, and decided that maybe he would look someplace else.

#12

“Sorry, I don’t date outside my species.”

What Girls really mean

What do you really mean when…..

• You push him away?: i don’t quite like your way… (ya, something like that)
• You hug him?: i like you or i miss you or i love you or don’t leave me
• You tell him you don’t wanna be around a crowd?: i just want to be with you… or i don’t want somebody (relatives or friends) to see both of us…
• You tell him to just forget it?: well… i really mean that he should just forget it or i don’t really mind about it…
• You tell him it’s too expensive?: don’t buy it because i would be in guilty…
• You say you hate him?: i don’t like his attitude or something that makes me annoying…

What would you do if….

• You caught him cheating?: i would silently leave him…
• He bought you a diamond ring?: i would ask him what’s the purpose of buying me a diamond ring…
• Proposed to you?: I would only say YES if I feel secure together with him… The word ‘secure’ here means I can trust him, let him shows his weaknesses, etc…
• Your parents didn’t like him?: I’d re-consider about it… I might give priority to my parents first…
• He got u pregnant next week?: *palis palis* Sure he has to be responsible for the thing he has done (well… it means both of the parties have to be responsible)
• He went to jail?: *palis palis* It doesn’t really matter as long as he didn’t attempt to kill me.
• He died?: Cry… Miss…

That special somebody

• Who were you thinking of during this survey?: nobody
• Are you two dating?: nope…

Cerita 3 Dokter

Pada zaman dahulu kala, ada 3 orang dokter.

Mereka selalu bersama ke mana saja mereka pergi. Tapi ketiga2nya memiliki kegemaran berlainan.

A – dr. Jon Poni (suka main perempuan).

B – dr. Jon Joni (suka minum minuman keras).

C – dr. Jon Doni (suka segala jenis rokok) .

Suatu hari ketiga sahabat ini berjalan jalan tanpa tujuan. Tiba2 ketiganya bertemu dengan sebuah ketel/kendi (seperti cerita Aladin). Lalu salah seorang mengambilnya lalu meng-gosok2kan ketel tersebut. Sejurus kemudian asap keluar dari corong ketel tersebut dan secara perlahan berganti menjadi satu makluk yang menyeramkan yakni seekor/seorang (?) jin yang ganas.Lalu jin tersebut tertawa: “Ha ha ha ..” dan berkata”Akulah Jin Ifrit !

Karena kamu telah membebaskan aku dari ketel itu maka aku akan tunaikan apa saja permintaan kamu sekalian!!” Ketiga sahabat yang pada mulanya panik dan takut menjadi gembira lalu termenung dan berpikir tentang peluang dan kemauan masing2 yang mungkin sekali dalam seumur hidup. Lalu mereka memilih kemauan mengikuti kegemaran masing2.

Berkata si A,”Aku mau perempuan2 muda dari berbagai bangsa di seluruh dunia dan letakkan dalam sebuah gua tertutup dan jangan ganggu aku selama 10 tahun.” Pufff!! Dengan sekejap mata jin itu menyempurnakan permintaan si A.

Berkata si B,”Aku mau semua jenis arak dari seluruh dunia untuk bekal selama sepuluh tahun dan letakkan dalam sebuah gua tertutup dan jangan ganggu aku selama 10 tahun.” Pufff!! Dengan sekejap mata jin itu menyempurnakan permintaan si B.

Berkata pula si C,”Aku mau semua jenis rokok dari seluruh dunia untuk bekal selama sepuluh tahun dan letakkan dalam sebuah gua tertutup dan jangan ganggu aku selama 10 tahun.” Pufff !! dengan sekejap mata jin itu menyempurnakan permintaan si C.

Setelah genap 10 tahun, maka jin tersebut muncul kembali untuk membuka pintu gua masing2 sebagaimana yang dijanjikan. Maka jin tersebut pergi membuka pintu gua si A, ketika dibuka maka keluarlah si A dengan keadaan kurus kering, berdiri pun tidak bisa karena tidak sanggup untuk menggerakkan lutut sebab hari2 hanya memuaskan nafsu dengan perempuan.Tiba2 si A pun jatuh ke tanah lalu mati!!

Setelah itu jin tersebut pergi ke gua si B, ketika pintu dibuka maka keluarlah si B dengan perut yang sangat buncit karena hari2 mabuk2an. Jalan pun ter-huyung2. Tiba2 si B pun jatuh ketanah lalu mati!!

Setelah itu jin pergi ke gua si C dan membuka pintu gua. Tiba2 si C keluar dalam keadaan sehat walafiat dan terus MENAMPAR si jin. Sambil memaki2 si jin ia berkata :

JIN GOOOOOBLOOOKK …!!!! lighter nye MANAAAAAAAAA ….???!!!

What My Name Means

What Davelynne Means

You are balanced, orderly, and organized. You like your ducks in a row. You are powerful and competent, especially in the workplace. People can see you as stubborn and headstrong. You definitely have a dominant personality. You are usually the best at everything … you strive for perfection. You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive. You have the classic “Type A” personality. You are very hyper. You never slow down, even when it’s killing you. You’re the type of person who can be a workaholic during the day… and still have the energy to party all night. Your energy is definitely a magnet for those around you. People are addicted to your vibe. You are friendly, charming, and warm. You get along with almost everyone. You work hard not to rock the boat. Your easy going attitude brings people together. At times, you can be a little flaky and irresponsible. But for the important things, you pull it together. You are relaxed, chill, and very likely to go with the flow. You are light hearted and accepting. You don’t get worked up easily. Well adjusted and incredibly happy, many people wonder what your secret to life is. You are a free spirit, and you resent anyone who tries to fence you in. You are unpredictable, adventurous, and always a little surprising. You may miss out by not settling down, but you’re too busy having fun to care. You are very intuitive and wise. You understand the world better than most people. You also have a very active imagination. You often get carried away with your thoughts. You are prone to a little paranoia and jealousy. You sometimes go overboard in interpreting signals.

What’s Your Name’s Hidden Meaning?

Aku Meminta, Tuhan Menjawab…

Aku meminta kepada Tuhan untk menyingkirkan penderitaanku.

Tuhan menjawab tidak.

Itu bukan untuk Ku singkirkan, tetapi agar engkau mengalahkanya.

Aku meminta kepada Tuhan untuk menghadiahkanku kesabaran.

Tuhan menjawab tidak.

kesabaran adalah hasil dari kesulitan, itu tidak di hadiahkan,itu di pelajari.

Aku meminta kepada Tuhan untuk memberiku kebahagiaan.

Tuhan menjawab tidak.

Aku memberimu berkat.kebahagiaan adalah tergantung padamu.

Aku meminta kepda Tuhan untuk menjauhkan penderitaan.

Tuhan menjawab tidak.

penderitaan menjauhkanmu dari perhatian duniawi dan membawamu mendekat kepadaKu.

Aku meminta kepada Tuhan untuk menumbuhkan Rohku.

Tuhan menjawab tidak.

Kau harus menumbukannya sendiri,tetapi Aku akan memangkas untuk membuatmu berbuah.

Aku meminta kepada Tuhan segala hal sehingga aku dapat menikmati hidup.

Tuhan menjawab tidak.

Aku akan memberimu hidup sehingga kau dapat menikmati segala hal.

Aku meminta kepada TUhan membantuku mengasihi org lain seperti Ia mengasihiku.

TUHAN MENJAWAB, AaaH ANAKKU

AKHIRNYA KAU MENGERTI.